Kiddwaya Responds To Backlash Over Benue Donations, Reaffirms Commitment To Victims

Reality TV star and philanthropist Kiddwaya has addressed the wave of criticism that followed his public appeal for donations to support victims of the ongoing crisis in Benue State through his foundation.

The former Big Brother Naija housemate explained that his intentions were sincere, driven by his identity as a native of Benue and deep concern for the ongoing violence that has claimed lives and displaced families. Kiddwaya, the son of billionaire Terry Waya, acknowledged the backlash and said he took down his initial post out of respect for those who felt offended or misunderstood the gesture.

“I didn’t post about Benue for clout,” he wrote. “I posted because I genuinely care. I am a proud Benue man, and what’s happening there breaks my heart. I couldn’t just look away. I took the donation post down because I acknowledged the pain and misunderstanding it caused, not because I’m ashamed of helping, but out of respect for your voices, even the angry ones.”

He went on to highlight the severity of the crisis, urging the public not to lose sight of the real issue.

“Let’s not forget what this is really about. Right now, people in Benue are being attacked. Families are being torn apart, and lives are being lost—innocent children, mothers, and fathers are being killed or displaced from their homes. That’s the real tragedy here. It hurts, and staying silent in the face of such pain didn’t feel right.”

Kiddwaya stressed that his foundation exists for moments like this and that he will continue to use his voice and resources to support those in need.

“The Kiddwaya Foundation was established for moments like this, to step in where help is needed most. And like all foundations, community support is what gives it life. I can’t fix this crisis alone, but I can and will do my part.

“Moving forward, I will continue my journey of supporting my people. Nonetheless, if more of us stand together, we can do even more for Benue and for every Nigerian experiencing pain like this. Let me be clear: I will not stop caring. I will not stop showing up when lives are on the line. I will continue to use what I have—my voice, my platform, and my resources—to help, no matter what anyone says.

“This isn’t about me; it never was. It’s about the people of Benue, and I hope that when the noise fades, we’ll all remember what truly matters.”

He concluded his statement with the following points:

Just a few points followed by my statement:

1. I’m happy with all the attention I’m getting because it shines the light on how important this Benue crisis is. So thank you TV stations, TVC, Arise, bloggers, content creators, and concerned citizens—I thank you all.
2. We Nigerians are exceptional when it comes to talking on social media, but in reality, not a lot gets done. Please let’s all take whatever action we can on the recurring security challenges in various parts of the country.
3. While feeding is always a priority for those in need, the generated funds will NOT wholly be used for palliatives this time around. However, I will use the money donated to help some of the families affected—shelter, clothing, feeding, medicine. So, if you have been affected, please email us, and we will do our best to assist with urgent needs. Or we will find NGOs on ground to donate to that are helping the displaced.